Friday, April 23, 2010

MARRIAGE TALKS...

Marriage Marriage everywhere.!!!!!You wake up in the morning just to hear that some one is going to get married or engaged..Guys are marrying at 25-26 and gals at 28-29..I loved this twist though..Every Tom Dick and Harry is getting married these days and I see them out with their marriage invitations..Ma family is so excited about my marriage that these type of news thrills them like anything..God..And the frustrations also..I was searching for SUNIL SHETTY'S  wall papers one fine afternoon and ma amma's cousin had come to see our family after a marriage..And the they talked about me and she came to ma room..She saw the the wall paper i was watching and asked me"is this guy from Kerala Matrimony?the guy is nice. I think you should marry him.." HAHAHA..I laughed like hell then...Even she wants me to pray like  "heyy bhagwan! mera number kabb aayega?''..
           I remember a guy who had a 'oh so great' crush on me right from my  7th standard.He appeared more like a gangster to me rather  than a guy in 12th standard.He was more of a female Casanova.. and I did really hate such guys...So he was always in ma hate list inspite of his deep love..Ma frens who were die hard fans of his as he ride bikes so well and in style, kept updating me about his day to day activities..It would be obviously like one girl proposed to him,he rejected,girl two cut her nerve for him ,girl three  ran away from home for him and many more..After ma 12th I got rescued from his romantic 'net' as gals flocked for him..During ma college days whenever I see him while I wait 4 ma college bus he would exhibit his show off and biker talents just like a clown in a circus...By the time I finished college I heard that he was in deep love with a gal.I prayed for him.At last he is saved I thought..PEACE!!!!!!!But no!He was again after gals or gals were after him,i don't have any idea..As soon as ma college finished, I heard ma mom telling me "u know dat guy  ran away with a gal and got married yesterday"OH THANK GOD!!!!PEACE AGAIN..At last he is settled.How long would he run after gals like this ???
                 After i came back home from Mysore,i heard about him again..Now he has become a dad!WOW..dat was a great news...I thought about all  ma school days and laughed...Okies..Now to the present scenario...
         There is a friend of mine who is elder 2me..So whenever  marriage talks arises in our chit chat sessions, she was the one who used to say  "I will get married first cos am d big sis here "...And the most interesting case is that except her, all other gals started getting married and I laugh at her for this often..and I tease her like "See small gals are getting married..and just see where u are,still single and ready to mingle"..to which she replies "U knw what?Marriage is decided by fate or destiny"..when I hear her say that I feel like am listening to a sanyasini and ma quick reply would be "oh shut up yaar"
      
I called ma friend now and she screamed through the phone
she: "heyy did u know that gita(name changed) is getting married ?"
me:OMG GITA!!!!! dat AMUL BABY of our class??She is getting married ??to whom ?
she:a guy of course..saw his snap..he s ok..and he deserves a much better gal than her..he s sort a handsome..
me:hahahaha!!!!!!nice thought..see even she is getting married and what abt u jaanemann ?still waiting for your dream boy ?"
she:if the guy likes me I won't like him,if both I and the guy like each other the horoscopes doesn't match..yaar am getting mad..i don't want to get married"
me: "yaar listen don't worry ...finally.i think .ummm..huh.. i think marriage is decided by fate or destiny "........
she:what the hell??U 2 BRUTUS????
i laughed as she kept asking me questions over and over again...

22 comments:

Bikram said...

Nice one .. First time here.. it is true.. the partners are already decided.. the one pulling our strings has already writen the script.. so as and when it happen...

and Now i know when i was trying to impress the girl, wat she was thinking of me then .. hmmmmm ha ha ah a gangster... thank god I did not havea bike then :)

akd said...

get married soon otherwise that gangster's son may circus in front of ur house !!!!!!!

Dr. Chandana Shekar said...

..Guys are marrying at 25-26 and gals at 28-29..I loved this twist though.. yeah, i like it too

i agree, weddin bells are ringin around too much.

hey, u from mysore? thats nice. me from mysore too. so what do u do?

R. Ramesh said...

vallah...jus remembered a joke from my friend..
She: What's happiness?
He: Dunno..got married early...
cheers

sangita said...

@Bikram: :) :)

sangita said...

@akd: No worries dear..He s a great Dad now ...

sangita said...

@Dr. Chandana Shekar:I am a Keralite..Nice to meet you :) :)

sangita said...

@R.Ramesh : haha..great!!!!!!!!

Harman said...

nice..I love that! good writing...

astrosunilnomy said...

Good one, me too going through same situation...sometimes it just feels so hard to find the right one for ourself though there may be few who may be well suited to oneself. i wonder how the hell to find them !! arranged marriage process simply filters off few of these well suited ones as they are not of same caste...hmmm

sangita said...

@Harman:Thank you dear :):)

sangita said...

@astrosunilnomy : haha..great...Same pinch 4 us den..

Uncommon Sense said...

why would u surf for wall papers of sunil shetty? do u like him or what... he looks weird to me

sangita said...

@uncommon sense:He s one of ma favs dear..He s a macho...

buckingfastard said...

oo wats da fuss abt getting married!!!

see if u had said yes to dat bad biker boy u wud be a mom of a small bad biker boy...such is destiny!!

sunil shetty??? seriosly!!! wenevr i read his name...da song hai huku hai huku get stuck in my mind fr rest of da day...:(

sangeetha said...

@bucking:I dnt want dat sort of destiny dear..:):)

anamika said...

Hi ,

Ha Ha!! I feel blessed to be married and its a great experience.:)

Thanks for visiting my blog..

Suree said...

marriage is decided by fate or destiny :P

subu.ps said...

A typical scene in all Kerala houses where there is a "pura niranju nilkkunna kutty" :)

A passionate traveller

R. Ramesh said...

sangita...thanks ya:)

Chandrika Shubham said...

Interesting incidence. :)

sangita said...

@anamika:hmm..HAHA..:):)
@suree: :):)
@subu:adeyade....
@chandrika: :):)